I've noticed some reader feedback on amazon.com, claiming your book is too religious. Why do you feel it's necessary to include so much religion in your famous book? Why not stick to the topic of job-hunting and save the preaching for another book?

In answering this question I've found it's always best to start off by being frankly defensive. (Whimpering would be even better, but if you're six foot five, as I am, that makes for a truly pathetic sight.)

But defensiveness is good. Seeing it, people know they're talking to a flawed human being, trying to find his own way out of the thicket called Life.

So, my immediate defensive response usually runs as follows: "In the current 1999 What Color Is Your Parachute? God or faith is mentioned in only five sentences in the entire body of the book (241 pages long) – one sentence (only) on each of the following five pages: xiv, 23, 27,61, and 175.

"To be sure, at the end of the book there is an Epilogue (19 pages) discussing my views about how faith relates to the job-hunt and life/work planning. Many readers have asked for this. But this passage is buried as an Epilogue at the end of the book precisely so that no reader will feel compelled to read it unless they wish to.

"That Epilogue aside, five sentences about religion in a 241 page book can't really be called 'too much religion', unless one is holding out for 'no mention at all'."

On most days, this is about as defensive and whiny as I tend to get. Then I limp off in search of a more sunny maturity, looking for broad principles to answer the obvious follow-up question: "Okay then, why did you put an Epilogue about faith, in your book on job-hunting and life work planning?"

I can answer that best, through two similes or metaphors.

1.Job-hunting and Life/ work planning are like the rings of a tree.
The innermost ring, in our lives, is plain old job-hunting.
The next ring outward is career-change.
The next ring is career-planning.
The next ring is life/work planning.
And the final ring is finding one's mission in life.

We all tend to start with the innermost ring, job-hunting, but as we get older, we move outward, from ring to ring.

If one has religious beliefs – and according to Gallup polls since the 1960's, a vast majority of the American people (94%) have some kind of belief in God – there is danger if you leave your beliefs in a mental ghetto as you move through these rings. Most of my six million Parachute readers want some guidance, here, as evidenced by the fact I've gotten more appreciative mail about this Epilogue than any thing else I've written in my life.

And now to our second metaphor:

2. Religion is like a playpen or sandbox.
Every decent marriage counselor knows that there are two arenas in a committed relationship that function essentially as 'playpens' or 'sandboxes' in which the two partners act out in microcosm, who they most truly are in macrocosm. Those two playpens are "sex" and "finances."

In the playpen called "sex" there is a wide range of behavior, as people use their sexuality to act out who they are in relationship to others. And so we find sex used for dominance or submission, gentleness or roughness, anger or appreciation, love or hatred. Wide and various is this thing called "sex."

In the second playpen called "finances" there is likewise a wide range of behavior, as people use their money to act out who they are value-wise. And so we find money used for hoarding or giving, a love of power or a love of helping others, a love of things physical or a love of things spiritual. Wide and various is this thing called "finances."

Ah, but there is a third playpen in human life, and this is the arena called "religion" or "spirituality" or "faith." Here too there is a wide range of behaviors, as people use their spirituality to act out who they are in the life of their soul. And so we find:

	Spirituality that is centered around God vs. spirituality that is centered around the self.
	Spirituality that holds religion to be "a tale told by an idiot" vs. spirituality that holds religion to be God's constant grace in our lives.
	Spirituality that is mesmerized by sin, vs. spirituality that is mesmerized by forgiveness.
	Spirituality that sees oneself as "us vs. them", compared with a spirituality that sees oneself and the rest of mankind as "we."
	Spirituality that is a desire to manipulate others, vs. spirituality that is simply a desire to share with others.

Wide and various is this thing called religion.

Hence, religion that is viewed as "preaching" by one person is viewed as the secret of life by another.

I hold the latter view.

I think religion and spirituality – the good kind – is not only the secret of life, but also the key to dealing with those rings.